Joe’s Post #79
Ok, get the kids out of the room. Close the blinds. Stop looking at Pinterest (seriously, stop looking). It’s time for a secret to be revealed. It’s the secret of how to keep writing in the face of daunting obstacles, both real and imagined.
This secret is so secret it doesn’t have a name. At least before now. Now, I shall call it the Reset Secret.
So, for any of you out there, me included, my 5/5/5 partners included, this is for you. For you, too Stephen King. And James Patterson. I know you have your dark moments, too.
One of the things that drags us down as writers (hey, even as non-writers, though I know not how you people thinketh), is the past. For writers it’s I didn’t get anything written last week or I had a lot of rejections or the dog at my outline.
Worse, we go farther back. I didn’t get a novel written on time. I have some many rejections that I could publish a novel of rejections. The dog ate my hard drive and peed all over the portable back-up.
It piles up and piles up until we’re so heavy with guilt or regret or disillusionment that we stop writing.
So, why not do what any child would do in any video game that locks up?
It’s simple in theory. Harder to do in practice.
But it can be done.
Today is day 1. Throw out all the old mind-f*cking junk. It’s day 1. It’s not the 30th day you haven’t written. It’s the 1st day you have a chance to write.
You’ve just come back from vacation and can finally sit down and write.
You’ve just got your computer repaired and can finally write again.
You’ve stopped for a moment in the coffee shop and have a few minutes to write.
Reset your mind. The past if full of things we cannot change (at least until I get my time machine in my basement to work). The future is full of possibilities yet unrealized. So, we have only the present that we really live in. In the present, we can write.
Living in the present is how I survived the death of my wife. The past had been devastated and the future looked hopeless and full of pain. Only in the present was there any sense of peace.
And there were bad days. Make no mistake. Many of them. But I tried to start each day as if it were day one.
As if I’d reset my life.
It’s the secret to the long struggle that is, for most of us, the writing life. At least for me.
Blogs I’ve read that are awesome: Blurt . Funny and cool.
My opinion on unicorns: They are the Kardashians of the mythical equines.
Number of times I felt smug: 2
Number of times I nearly had a heart attack while watching the SF vs Seattle game: 35
Number of queries done: As of 9am, 0. RESET!
Number of short stories sent out: As of 9am: 0 RESET!